After dating divorce advice

Finding yourself single and dating again after a divorce will require you getting used to your “new reality.” You are older, your body may be a little (or a lot) different than it was the last time you were dating, you may have “baggage” (exes, children, etc.) – and so will the men you will be dating!For many people (myself included) getting used to your new reality, what I now call “acclimatizing,” can take some time.It’s like telling yourself you’re prepared and ready for anything,” say Kylie & Jonathan.

Instead of dating with a checklist of superficial attributes, I encourage women to search for a partner with complimentary values, and to be willing to let attraction develop.Not surprisingly, one of the most important aspects of dating is learning how to “market” yourself.This includes taking care of yourself inside and out so you feel your most attractive and confident.I share this now with a light heart, because five years after my separation, I have “acclimatized” and have since happily dated middle-aged men, many of whom are divorced and have children.In other words, my dating pool didn’t change, I did.

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